10 Reasons Not to Commit Suicide

1.    DON’T GIVE UP

Quit, Lose, Surrender, Give Up…these words have negative connotations. Do you really want them to apply to you?

Are you really a quitter?

No?

Prove it.

Don’t end. Change.

So you have some terrible things going on in your life, most people do. It doesn’t mean you end your life, it means you endure, adapt, grow and in time…triumph.

2.    DON’T HURT YOUR LOVED ONES

Sure committing suicide is a difficult choice for you, but have you even stopped to think about how badly you’re going to hurt your loved ones? Family and friends are likely to be absolutely devastated and sure, not everyone has family or friends, but if you could visit your own funeral, you might be surprised to learn you have a few more than you thought.

Many loved ones will never understand your decision. It will haunt them forever. Many close to you are likely to blame themselves and think it’s somehow their fault.

Just remember, when you commit suicide, you’re not just removing yourself from your life, you’re also removing yourself from everyone else’s lives.

3.    THERE’S GOT TO BE A BETTER WAY

Sure change and improvement is difficult, but there’s almost never a situation that’s insurmountable. Can’t you see some possible way to triumph in the situation you’re in without giving up everything you were, are and will ever be?

If you can’t think of a way, maybe someone else can. You owe it to yourself and your loved ones to investigate all options. Suicide isn’t something to be taken lightly.
Suicide is the worst solution to a difficult situation.

4.    DON’T THROW OUT THE BABY WITH THE BATH WATER

Sure, taking your life may stop the misery, depression, loneliness and pain.

But don’t forget you’ll also be ending the bliss, happiness, love and pleasure…forever.

Is that really what you want? To end all the good things in your life and to eliminate all the amazing things you will experience in the future?

5.    DON’T LEAVE THAT IMPRESSION

In the wake of your suicide, you are likely to always be remembered as the one who gave up, the one who couldn’t hack it, the one who quit, the one who left their loved ones in the lurch.

Is that how you really want to be remembered?

6.    DON’T GIVE UP YOUR MOST PRECIOUS POSSESSION

You will probably never drive in a Ferrari or live in a 30-million-dollar mansion. You may never have a super-model for a wife, or a saint for a husband.

What you do have and will have for as long as you choose to keep it, is the most precious possession of all…your own…perfectly unique life.

Is it perfect? No, but then what is?

The goal isn’t to be perfect, it’s to live the best and most satisfying life you can.

7.    THERE ARE NO SECOND CHANCES

If it’s a big date and you choose the wrong movie, or an important anniversary and you choose the wrong restaurant, it sucks, but it’s not the end of the world. You choose something better the next time.

If you choose to take your life and realize that you’ve made a mistake in your final moment. There’s no re-do. There are no second chances. There is no next time.

Suicide is one mistake you can’t make up for and you can’t atone for.

8.    DON’T END THE STORY EARLY

When you watch television, read books, or watch movies, do you stop at the 25% mark? Do you stop in the middle? Do you stop 75% through?

Of course not! You know things usually get better at the end and you want to see the climax.

Your life is probably the same way. You don’t want to stop your life at the 75% mark.

Stories throw all their seemingly insurmountable obstacles at the hero around the 75% mark and it’s the hero’s chance to hang tough, impress and make the adventure all worthwhile. If you stop it before the hero has that chance, you ruin the story. You ruin the book.

Sure, when you really hate a book or find a movie boring, you might on the rarest of occasion stop early, because you can change this story for another more exciting one, but this story is special.

This is your story. And if you hate it, then do it, change it for a more exciting one, change your life into what you want it to be, because remember, this is the central story. You’re the hero. These are your obstacles. This is your adventure and this is your time to shine.

If you stop this story early, you don’t just ruin the story, you ruin your life.

Have no fear. No one said it would be easy, but then what hero ever impressed without great obstacles to overcome?

There can be no great heroes without great obstacles, just like many of the greatest people are products of the trials they’ve overcome.

This is your time to endure and become more than what you are.

9.    THE BUTTERFLY EFFECT

You may tell yourself the world is better off without you, or that your death won’t make any difference and no one will notice, but ideas are nonsense. Every life affects the entire universe, because everything is connected. Even if you spend your entire life in one room and never interact with other people, you’re having a tremendous effect on things, because you could’ve gone out and had a tremendous positive effect in the world. By not doing that, you’ve deprived the world of most of your influence and positivity.

If you doubt this, just read “The Butterfly Effect” in Logical Spiritualism Subjects.

Believe it or not, your life has a huge effect on everything. Taking your own life will send a tidal wave of loss and emptiness through The Butterfly Effect.

Do you really think you’ll benefit the universe by subtracting yourself from it? If you really set your mind to it, don’t you think you could have a positive effect on things?

If you want to have a positive effect on the universe, there’s almost no chance that you can do that by ending your own life and removing yourself from the endless equation.

10.    THERE ARE BETTER WAYS TO HURT PEOPLE

Finally, maybe you feel wronged. Maybe your goal really is to hurt those you feel have wronged you. Maybe you want to rattle their bars and wake them up. Maybe you want to fill them with regret for all the mistakes they’ve made.

First, there are better and more painful ways to hurt people, which don’t require the most costly sacrifice of your greatest possession.

Second, if the people really are so terrible, it’s possible that your sacrifice would backfire. Perhaps they really are just bad people and instead of sparking some tenderness, regret or sadness in them, your death will be easily ignored and easily forgotten. Perhaps a burden will even be lifted from their unapologetic shoulders. Do you really want to take that chance?

No. Stick it to them the best way possible. Live your life better than theirs and make them choke on their own jealousy.

Your time is better spent trying to make yourself happy than trying to make someone else sad.

Be good. Be better. Accomplish more. Be happier.



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126 comment(s).
tokillmyself - 8/12/2018 1:25:59 PM
Bunch of bullshit.i don't think i am going to kill myself tonight.though i got close (real close).if i think about it few more time i might do it. I came to thos page to look for some answers but it didn't help me a bit.though no.6 &7 does feel appealing but the rest are a complete waste of time.u should write or give us reasons to live instead of wasting your time and our.To think many people would have come here before killing themselves.and you write these type of stupid article.this would give more reason to kill ourselves.
michael - 8/10/2018 1:10:36 PM
Ah bull crap! My life is a fucking wreck! I'm 31 I have social anxiety depression and constantly feel alone! I have never had a license or a job I still live with my dad and help raise my niece and newphew both of which is good damned ungrateful and a drain I been diagnosed with MS and I was molested as child by a friend of the family! My life is a nightmare that I want to be awoken from! I'm ready to die. My death will be such a release im uncomfortable 24/7 I go to bed exhausted and wake up tired! I just want to go to sleep and never wake up! I'm dirt poor btw and cannot find a job I've put in multiple apps and never got a call back or interview! I'm just ready for death I wish I would die I did apply for my disiablitlity but I was denied! It's like wtf if I don't qualify but the guy down the street does just cause he drinks like a fish? I want to die so badly the only reason I'm still alive at this point is because I'm afraid of what would become of my neiece and newphew! But all I do is make their life worse it seems so maybe I really should just go ahead and kill myself! I've don't as much as I could to do better but now my memory is failing. God damn it I'm doing it tonight I've already had 3 attempts but this time it'll work. I'm going to buy or find some bull rope I've tried hanging once I bought a brand new belt and ran the end that had holes in it through the buckle and made a loop I put that over my head around my neck I attached the loose ends to to a rope that was tied to a rafter in a she'd in my back yard I lowered myself to my knees creating enough tension to cut the blood flow to my brain I passed out I woke up laying on my stomach it was during my glasses were gone the belt broke where the buckle was attached! This time I'm going to use some thick bull rope to do it hopeful I'll be dead by Monday 13 2018 by apparent sucide I'm done with life it's just one long waste of time. I mean let's say I get disiablitlity and a place of my own? What then? A life alone and hurting im even too afraid to talk to someone about this!
Thomas - 7/1/2018 10:58:58 AM
This article presumes you feel depressed and implies that that is not a valid reason for ending your life. But what if you are a bad person, who hurts people and steals from them, inflicting pain and misery on others. Would not that be a valid reason for removing yourself from existence, when you could objectively show that others would be both emotionally and financially better off with you dead? What legitimate basis is there for this article to presume that every individual life is a net positive for the universe?
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irdra - 6/23/2018 7:15:48 PM
What a bunch of crap.
This has been absolutely no help at all !
But rather only a waste of time...
Jake Jason Rodgers - 6/20/2018 12:49:29 PM
I'm not saying that the world's better off without me or anything like that, it's just that my life's been very shitty. For example, my girlfriend once RAPED me, my father shot me several times with his paint ball gun when I was a teenager, my mother once played an April fool's day prank on me by PUTTING ME UP FOR ADOPION, and there's this one time that my brother, Clinton Randall Rodgers (that's his full name) once broke my ankle.
Ryan Migunis Mazer - 6/19/2018 10:41:16 AM
Listen... I've had to deal with bullying my whole life, I've had to deal with racism from black people and African American people, and I use the term racism for this because I'm white, I've been framed for things that weren't my fault so the people that actually did them were too afraid of getting in trouble for it themselves, both of my 2 siblings hate me, and my uncle died. And I've been very, very depressed for a very big part of that whole time.
amazing facts in hindi - 6/14/2018 1:31:54 AM
please don't do this
AndyH - 5/1/2018 12:06:19 PM
I somewhat agree with the notion that one should try one's best to wait for better times, not give up, etc. OK. But what if someone suddenly gets seriously ill, catches an incurable disease or similar? What is the point of living, when you know that you will never be loved due to this disease? That your life from now on will always be at disadvantage? Fine to discourage suicide when there is a theoretical prospect of things getting better, but in some hopeless cases it can be the only way out of never-ending misery.
Truc Bac Dan Huong - 4/14/2018 2:05:31 AM
"Self-sufficiency" is a crazy idea. Why do we think of it, while life is full of joy, happiness?
Nonsense - 4/2/2018 11:39:07 PM
I struggle to find any "logic" in this list and it is seemingly no better than the useless shit "Ranker" posts in their fake, poorly "researched" lists on Facebook.

Here's a list of FACTS:

1. I'm ugly as fuck
2. I'm fat as fuck
3. My "career" is a fucking joke
4. I have "some college" and by "some" I mean a lofty 18 units at a junior college frequented by drug addled degenerates
5. My ex wife is a fucking cunt, who with the unwavering blessing of a "Judge" in the family (kangaroo) courts extorts me for a majority of my income. Because, you know, child "support"
6. Despite being proven beyond all doubt a good father, I had to attend said court ELEVEN times and spend over $20,000 in useless legal fees to see MY OWN KIDS
7. Did I mention I am financially ruined?
8. Without a degree I am stuck in my useless career; see #3 and 4
9. After using me, both the military and VA discarded me and deny there's anything wrong with me. I'm "not veteran enough" to have post traumatic stress
10. I was repeateadly and egregiously sexually abused as a child by a "family friend" - because my selfish neglectful parents needed him as their drug dealer. THANKS MOM!!
11. Married the woman of my dreams, have done my best, she fucking HATES ME and is routinely and needlessly aggressive to me.
12. Said dream woman, unbeknownst to her, is utterly insensitive to all of my stressors and emotional issues

This is a list. And people wonder why I would web search shit which leans towards contemplating suicide. I HAVE NO PLAN & it is doubtful I will act.

IF I DO elect to end my life, it's MY OWN decision and I hope my wife knows I love her & it isn't her fault. It's because clearly I am a bad person, marginal at everything & thus a burden to everyone.
Alwaysamazed - 3/31/2018 10:31:36 AM
Not one of these “lists” I have been searching for has provided a valid reason to stay. Don’t you understand I won’t care what somebody thought of me, or who thought I was weak or selfish… That’s the whole point I’m so tired living up to everybody’s expectations they can all go fuck themselves I’m tired of being everybody’s mommy. It will relieve the pain because there will be no more pain because I’ll be gone. Amen.
Fcknkb - 3/21/2018 3:13:37 PM
Just f*cking SJW snowflake perfect happy utopia bullsh*t
Ben - 2/22/2018 3:32:21 AM
don't use bad words (for writer and commenter) think before speaking..
MF - 2/18/2018 3:33:41 PM
I don't think anyone can write a blog post or an article that sums up the reasons not to take your life- because it's too unique to the individual. I've been severely depressed after undergoing emotional trauma for awhile now, and have only recently began to think about suicide. I'm giving myself a time cap of 2 months of trying as hard as I can before I do it. In my opinion, physical biology has a lot to do with these feelings- so I'm trying to up my Vitamin D and DHA levels by taking supplements, which naturally are supposed to boost your mood, trying to force myself out of bed as much as possible, and try to exercise. It's really, really hard- don't get me wrong. If you're on this blog, your sense of self-worth and desire to try to fix your life are probably low. But if there is any emotional boost in you, even sporadically, to try- give yourself some time before you do it. Maybe things will turn around, maybe not. I guess I'll let y'all know. What prevents me from doing it now is the fact that we can't talk to the people who have successfully committed suicide to see if they regret it. Imagine if we could, perhaps then, the suicide rate would decrease. Food for thought.
Steven - 2/15/2018 1:10:28 AM
100% the world would experience a net benefit if I ended my life. Not everyone's existence is beneficial. Mine is solely an economic an emotional drain on my family and community.
Jude - 1/9/2018 5:48:24 PM
Logical Spiritualism, I understand you mean well, but the list is quite dangerous to suicidal people, and may even push them over the edge. It is borderline judgmental/tough love, and the language or phrasing lacks true understanding or empathy. Sometimes, it is best to steer clear of conversations where someone isn't well equipped to handle. I do not mean to make this an attack in any way. This is rather to bring to your attention something that seems too deep rooted for such a list to remedy, and the damage it could cause. Consider those, on the verge of suicide, or just entertaining the thought as third degree burn victims, who cannot tolerate a light breath anywhere near their skin. Thanks.
Rex - 11/30/2017 8:55:05 PM
Good Points, but I have already thought of all of these points at some point and now think that its all in my head. Good try


Im still on the fence
CiliaVae - 10/31/2017 8:43:09 PM
This seriously makes us feel worse...
Just stop trying and let us die already.
Dalip - 10/23/2017 3:17:08 AM
What is the easiest way to suicide
ChronicPainSufferer - 10/10/2017 2:21:55 AM
Just want to add, this list of empty platitudes can do more harm than good. You probably want to make suicidal people feel motivated but you;re doing the exact opposite. Now, I understand my case is different because I have a physical illness. My decision to kill myself is not impulsive. It's five years in the making and I've been planning carefully. I want to go with a peaceful mind and happy heart. Believe it or not, I appreciate the first 35 years of my life, the years before I got sick. I will die not with anger and bitterness anymore, but with gratitude for what I have and excitement for what's to come.

But it's different for a fragile depressed people. This list is more than enough to drive them to the edge because it's full of guilt-tripping and condescension. Do you think they aren't aware that they would hurt the people around them? Do you think they haven't tried to look for better ways? Do you think they didn't try to hope first, when hope is the kind of thing that pushes itself on to you even when you don't want it to?

These people need help for mental health, and also validation for their feelings. Feeling suicidal is part of the human experience. They shouldn't be made to feel bad for feeling that way. They should be understood, then helped.
ChronicPainSufferer - 10/10/2017 2:05:31 AM
1. DON’T GIVE UP
I’m a quitter, if being a quitter means finding peace from my chronic pain. I can't care about the names you call me when I'm in this much pain.
2. DON’T HURT YOUR LOVED ONES
My parents cry whenever they see me struggle with my illness. As for other people, they already dropped out on me because my illness limits what I can do.
3. THERE’S GOT TO BE A BETTER WAY
I went expensive specialists. They said there's no cure, just live with it. But I don't have access to medical marijuana or opioids because they're illegal where I am. I tried pharma meds but had to stop because of side effects.
4. DON’T THROW OUT THE BABY WITH THE BATH WATER
I’ve been in pain for five years now. I followed research news but looking at the current status, it would take at least 20 years before something can help me. Can’t wait 20 years. It's hard to pursue things that can make me happy when I’m in much pain.
5. DON’T LEAVE THAT IMPRESSION
If there’s nothing after death, I wouldn't exist, let alone care about what people think. If there's something after death, I’d be happy to be free from physical pain, and why would I be bothered with the trivialities of earth?
6. DON’T GIVE UP YOUR MOST PRECIOUS POSSESSION
I didn't ask to be born but I enjoyed my life before I got sick. But now I no longer enjoy my life. Why hold on to it? We tell people to give up unfulfilling jobs, toxic friends, unhealthy relationships. I’m doing the same thing with my life.
7. THERE ARE NO SECOND CHANCES
My illness ensured I don't have chances in life left. The past five years is hell, being in physical pain almost 24/7, plus emotional pain from trying to find pain relief. I'm not killing myself impulsively. I’ve been carefully planning my exit. I don't feel any regret, just peace.
8. DON’T END THE STORY EARLY
Many things are possible but not probable. I know when the odds are in my favor and when they aren’t. Also, quality is better than quantity. Some stories are too long, they would be better if edited properly.
9. THE BUTTERFLY EFFECT
My death can result in a great positive change. I don’t care either though because I'd be dead. I care only about my parents, and they'll understand. If they won't, I am in too much pain to live for others.
10. THERE ARE BETTER WAYS TO HURT PEOPLE
I don't plan to kill myself to hurt people. I love the few people I still have left in my life. I’m killing myself in spite of hurting them, because my body is hurting me so much.
Whyso - 10/4/2017 11:58:48 AM
I hate to do this, but theres easily many reasons to commit suicide and unless we change as a society, they will keep happening.

1) You're a depressed mess and no one wants to be "dragged down"). Youve seen it, no one wants a downer for a friend, everyone recommends leaving them behind as not to get dragged down. Well thats you.

2) Youre a burden to your family. With moderate to severe depression the sufferer often cannot hold down a job. What are you doing burdening your family? No ones offering real mental health help but blaming laziness and inability to cope with life and depression.

3) Negative Stigma. If word got out you are depressed or have a questionable gap in employment, it will be difficult to get a job. Once again, youre burdening your family. Keep trying but theres also five million other people searching for a job.

4) It will stay with you for the rest of your life. There's no magic cure here, even with medications and psychotherapy, the depressed negative thoughts will resurface and haunt you for the rest of your life. You'll be better but you wont seem as fully happy as the rest of the world.

5) Broken relationships. Did depression destroy what little relationships you had with your family or friends? Did they fail to understand or even care? Why even go on? The last support is gone. Even adults who find it difficult to make new friends are telling you to go make new friends IN YOUR DOWNER DEPRESSED STATE. Realistically whats going to happen more isolation or magically more friends? Try and fail and the depression comes back with a vegence.

6) Lack of healthcare access. Even prisoners get better healthcare... Maybe depressed people really dont deserve to live in this world. No one cares. Cant afford anti depressants? Cant even afford or get on a wait list for a therapist? Then have what little social support you have left tell you, you dont need pills, just feel better? Why are you always so down? Why cant you be a better person? Really what hope is left.

7) Short pain or long pain? This will cross every suicidal person mind, do I let this miserable existance that is a burden to everyone including society carry on with no guarantee of recovery or end it now and stop being a resource drain? Remember depression affects the ability to hold down a job.

Im not advocating suicide but I want people to do something about it. You cant expect someone who is irrationally depressed and suicidal to read this 10 reasons list and get better. There is a lack of healthcare resource for them. Do something before its too late.
Eventually - 7/22/2017 11:12:53 PM
Someone in a post down below stated that "suicide is wrong." In other words, the value judgment here is that it is immoral. This is a form of thought control, i.e. it is psychological manipulation. To my mind, suicide -- in itself -- is neither "right" nor "wrong." All problems surrounding a successful attempt (and certain unsuccessful ones, as well) mostly concern how other people will be affected by it. Also, if the attempt is a failed one, any residual damages to the person himself might also be viewed as a burden for others to deal with.
Eventually - 7/22/2017 10:38:48 PM
My only thought is that if you have obligations to others, including pets, then I think it is wrong to take your life under these circumstances. Otherwise than familial obligations, I see no reason not to commit suicide if one desires to do so, and that's regardless of the age of the person, since we all will die eventually, anyway.
Since I have no friends or family left, there is no hold up in that regard. I do, however, have a pet that I plan on bringing to the shelter beforehand. My method of choice is ratchet strap strangulation since pure helium for the exit bag method is now difficult to obtain. Eventually, I will commit suicide and I hope it will be sooner rather than later.
nobody - 7/1/2017 2:52:50 AM
bye guys.
nobody - 7/1/2017 2:51:37 AM
i have what i need.
i'm really nervous.
i hope it's get better.


ok now i have to wait.
i think u guys my best friends
hope u find your way i find mine.hope you dont need to chose like me
....................................................................
nobody - 7/1/2017 2:40:43 AM
now i have to go buy some sleeping peels that's the way i choose to end my life i think i have to go now.bye
nobody - 7/1/2017 2:37:21 AM
i gave myself and everyone else the final chance to make something anything a little better but it goes far more worse than i expected
we gone to a trip to an island my parents fight to each other and for the first time in my life i see them fight like that that night i want to tell them something i was almost ready to tell them maybe they could change my choice but i think i gave them their last chance and i gave myself last chance.
Sarah - 6/25/2017 12:20:16 AM
Well actually there's no loved one..and there's also no reason to live, no person to live for or no job to finish..there's nothing...I just feel that I've died years ago but the only difference between other dead people & me is that I'm not burried yet..The bigger problem is that I've heard about the paradise and hell and I'm afraid if they really exist, cause that way, even if I kill myself, I won't survive..
If there's anyone who can help me out, that's my telegram ID
@sariive
farshid - 6/2/2017 2:01:12 PM
well I'm not particularly killing myself tonight but hopefully someday till then I'm going to answer this whatever it is 1-yes i am a qutter 2-i don't have any loved ones 3-there really is not 4-don't know anything about this love and pleasure thing that you're talking about 5-who gives a fuck what people think od me when I'm dead 6-pfft 7-i should hope so who wants to go trough this shit again 8-well this ones just bullshit9-why do i give a fuck about universe??10-nope just that I'm useless miserable and good for nothing better dead trash
Concerned mama - 5/28/2017 8:01:01 AM
John
I am so sorry you lost your mom ?? and that you have to endure bullying. My son was bullied and it changed his personality and how he interacted (withdrew from people) so I can relate somewhat to what you are going through. PLEASE talk to someone, anyone....keep searching out someone until you can find one who can help you....you shouldn't have to go through all this mental pain alone. I don't personally know you but I care..:sending hugs and hope
Cn - 5/11/2017 9:49:45 AM
Wow its the same points every time people dont vare until its too late or wait ...
Did anyone ever cared about us the society looks at depressive people with disgust sometimes they help but thats so rare and after the people killed themselves everyone in their head will callem stupid im sry but i think these lists are an insult to everyone that nobody helped!!
john - 5/10/2017 9:07:43 AM
I get bullied in school my mum died last year i dont have i any friends i dont see any reason not to.
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DON’T GIVE UP YOUR MOST PRECIOUS POSSESSION

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Arselan - 3/19/2017 7:42:49 PM
Who the fuck wrote this? Do you think life is like a jerkoff session or something? Fuckin moron. It's incredible how even when a person is considering suicide?, KILLING YOURSELF, he is still expected to think about other people.
johnathon - 2/28/2017 3:48:30 PM
So what am i supposed to do just trudge through this and hope for the best that is all i have ever done and it has gotten me nowhere and i don't know what to do anymore.
Drew - 2/22/2017 2:22:21 AM
Fuck you. Fuck your answers and logic and ...

2/22/17 life saved.

Fuck you. And thank you.
Just Another Sad Human - 2/13/2017 9:33:32 AM
Those reasons aren't valid. 75 years from my death not a single soul will remember who I am. I'll just be another old picture in someones attic. Anyone who says I'm a quitter probably wouldn't have the balls to pull the trigger so their opinion is pointless. I am a free human being and part of that freedom is being able to end my life regardless of how it affects others. Only I know what really goes on in my life. Only I know who I am. I will have no regrets once I am dead. I will feel no pain.
NunYoBizniz - 1/17/2017 8:51:34 PM
"Can it be right to commit suicide?" https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/hide-and-seek/201205/can-it-be-right-commit-suicide
ali - 1/17/2017 3:36:22 AM
"But don’t forget you’ll also be ending the bliss, happiness, love and pleasure…forever"

Bullshit...
Lilie - 12/9/2016 8:11:28 AM
I've read your site, but it didn't me understand what the person feels the moment the cut their life short. I'm doing an opposing view point on suicide, but nothing here helped me under stand what they feel when it's too late
Ilya - 12/4/2016 3:01:51 AM
Also keep in mind all the good things you can do in the future.

I was thinking of killing myself for 2 months until I helped a girl to get up when she fell.

If you will end your life, you are eliminating all the kind things you can do in the future.
Marsha - 11/25/2016 2:27:45 PM
Actually, I will argue your "certainty" about no second chances because you have nothing to base this on. Your site is obviously written from a perspective that cannot relate. My son has suffered depression his whole life. He had wonderful friends in the last few months, he always felt loved and he was an active participant in "life" and giving to others. One's decision to end their journey is no one else's business. The hurt that remains is ours to figure out and that is what "unattachment" is about. Nothing is permanent. Pain is inevitable, suffering is self-inflicted. It has been 2 months since he left, but I have not once blamed him nor have I blamed my pain on him or anyone. It is something that has been apart of the human psyche since the beginning of time. To say a life is cut short by suicide is ridiculous. How do you or I or anyone actually know the length that a life is "supposed to be?" This is a deeper philosophical discussion than "here are 10 reasons not to..." Sure you mean well, but your thoughts do not go nearly deep enough.
Logical Spiritualism - 11/18/2016 8:03:29 AM
Cindy, thanks for the caring and sympathetic message!!!

Chandan, life is very difficult for so many people! Often, the best way out of it is to change your world view by gaining knowledge from others and meeting and interacting with the right kind of people.
Logical Spiritualism - 11/18/2016 8:01:14 AM
Marcus, thanks for sharing and trying to help!

Nunja, sorry you feel that way! Hopefully a few of the things said on this page can give you some solace.
Logical Spiritualism - 11/18/2016 7:59:08 AM
Michael, that life sounds rough! Some would say it is possible that suicide is the best option, but suicide is NEVER the only option!
Logical Spiritualism - 11/18/2016 7:57:33 AM
Eon, great metaphor, but walking out of one movie in the middle, might be quite different than walking out of all of them forever and never seeing movies again.
Logical Spiritualism - 11/18/2016 7:56:19 AM
TW it is certainly not mental illness to struggle greatly with things in your life! Most of us do at one time or another! I salute you for your love and dedication to your daughter and hope you find more peace and more success in the future!!!

It seems like valuing your own self-worth more will be key in determining a better life for you and attracting a worthwhile partner. Try Badoo.com. It can be a great way to make new friends and lovers.
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