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40 Ways to Know a Guy is Interested


Ever wonder how you could tell if a guy likes you?

It is actually very easy to tell, if you know what to look for.

These signs are meant to be interpreted in clusters, which means, one sign may or may not mean anything, but several signs (4 or 5) together usually lead you to a very clear message.

Here are 40 ways to tell when a guy is interested in you…

Staring – Staring is the most obvious tell-tale sign that guy is interested. Men frequently make little effort to disquise their visual fixation. It’s easy to catch them staring across a crowded room in your direction, if they like you.

Impressing through Competition– Strangely, one of the primary ways a man will flirt with women is to try to impress them by being better than his competition. He will try to out muscle his friends in a wrestling match. He will try to outrun their competition in a race. He will try to outspend or out-drink other men at the bar. He will try to have the nicest care or the most expensive house.

While, it makes sense to show your attributes, the ironic thing is that most women don’t seem to be inspired by show-offs, who rub their opponent’s faces in the dirt and it’s easy for men to come off as petty and/or conceited, as they follow their natural inclinations to impress in this way.

Willingness to Talk & Listen – Most men aren’t all the talkative and especially about the issues women like to talk about. If he is talking to you a lot and actually seems to be paying attention, there is a good chance it is because he is interested and his added incentive to listen is that he wants to bed you.

Shedding Comfort Zones
– A man may be willing to do things most men would never do, like dance or ride a horse, or buy tampons in a public store.

Bragging – Men will often try to separate themselves from their competition, simply by telling girls how they are better, or a little more subtly bringing up things that make them stand apart, even though this can backfire and leave the man coming across as conceited and arrogant.  More humble and restrained men may want to brag, but will generally refrain, even though they often have more to brag about.

Glancing – Men may also glance, though this more the practice of women. If a man is glancing, he may be overly shy and lack confidence, or perhaps he is a player trying to utilize this technique. 

Pointing –No not with their hands! Most people don’t know, but the true sign of a person’s attention is their feet. If her feet are pointing at you, then you are the focus of her attention.

Smiles – Smiles are a very good sign! Where as women tend to use smiles as a flirting tactic, men are simplistic and simply smile because they are happy to see you, but this truth is probably even more revealing. 

Glancing at your lips – This is one of the surest GO signals! If he frequently glances at your lips, you either have the biggest cold sore ever, a moose is stuck between your teeth, or he desperately wants you to kiss you.

Mirroring
–Is he mimicking your posture and body positioning? Mirroring is one way we subconsciously create rapport. If he is mirroring you, there is a good chance he is attempting to connect.

Eye Dilation – If his eyes dilate (become bigger) as he stares into yours, this is a very good sign!

Touching – Touching is overtly invading another person’s personal space. So if he throws his arm around you, tickles you or gives you a bear-hug, those are all very good signs he may desire increased physical intimacy.

Lip service – Does he use his tongue to wet his lips, or rub the tip of his finger across them? When men wet their lips it can be a prelude to kissing and generally demonstrates they like something or someone. Touching fingers to lips can be an indication they’re thinking about kissing.

Striking Up a Conversation– If he starts up a conversation with you, he may just need information, but it could indicate an additional motive.

Asking your Opinions – Men especially don’t care about the opinions of others. If a guy is frequently asking you for your opinion or taking your opinion into consideration, he is either profoundly polite, respects you a lot, or holds you in a special high-regard.

Giving a Speaking Opportunity – This is a strange read on men, since women generally send non-verbal signals and then men are generally expected to start the conversation. Less confident men often create speaking opportunities and then fail to find the courage to say what they really want to, so you may catch a shier man striking up a conversation and then appearing to lose his train of thought or his interest in talking, as his confidence evaporates and he retreats.

Men will try to emphasize physical attributes – Men will try to emphasize their muscles or fitness, while attempting to conceal or deemphasize their beer-gut, love handles or other physical imperfections.

Subliminal Messages– Sometimes our subconscious plays tricks on us. If you catch a guy staring off into space, or even better, staring into your eyes, while they make a circle with their pointer finger and slide a pen and pencil in and out of it, this is probably a window into their current thoughts…fantasies. The funny thing is they may not even realize it.

Clothes – Most men don’t pay all that much attention to clothes, but if you do perceive that he dresses more sharply around you, that could be a good sign.

Add – Now with modern technological advances, we have even newer ways to tell he’s interested. Did he friend you on Facebook or add you to What’s Up ,etc?

Trouble making eye contact – Only men with severe deficiencies in confidence, or some men from traditional Asian cultures, are usually going to have trouble making eye contact, since our inclination is usually to stare, though if you catch men staring they may look away in an effort not to be too obvious. For women, who tend to be much more adept at reading signals, it will still usually be serial-killer obvious, if he is into you.

Friends – A guy’s close friends will usually know if he likes a girl, so it is easy to look at them for signals that something is up, or you can take it one step further and ask them.

Closed Behavior – This is the opposite of looking for signs of interest. Instead, look for signs the guy is not interested. Are his arms crossed in front of her chest? Are his legs crossed? Are his hands impatiently placed on his hips? Is he yawning a lot around you? These are usually signs of disapproval or a lack of interest. Also, if his eyes or feet are pointed in another direction, he is probably not giving you his full attention.

Who pays – This is a great way to tell how interested he is!!! Unless, they are hopelessly poor, or offendingly cheap, men will generally prefer to pay for a date with a girl they really like. If he is really pushing to go Dutch and not have to pay for you, he is probably thinking you are just friends or he is cheap (He may be an “elbow” as Costa Ricans call it).

Point of origin – A man may not want you to know where he lives. If this is the case, the two most likely scenarios are that he is a player and doesn’t want you showing up unexpectedly when another girl is over, or his wife, or he is embarrassed about his living arrangement and doesn’t want you to think badly of him.

Bedroom talk – You might be able to maneuver yourself onto a guy’s bed who is not interested in you, because men can be kind of oblivious, but generally if a guy is making an effort to get you to the bedroom, for example, “would you like to watch a movie on the bed?” or “would you like to lay down on the bed for a massage?”, he is generally hoping this will lead to coitus (sex).

Greetings – How does he greet you? A big smile with a hug is great. A frown or a non-reaction is not good. Does he always seem happy to see you and energized when you are around? You’re doing great!!!

Remembrance – Does he remember your birthday, or the big test you’re worried about? Hmm. You must be on his mind and he cares enough to remember. You must be pretty important to him, especially since most men are notoriously forgetful when it comes to things like special occassions.

Three is a Crowd – Does he make plans to spend time with you alone, or every time you start planning, he goes out of his way to include other people? If a guy is not trying to make alone time with you, he probably is not interested and if he is actively making sure you don’t end up at home alone with him, then he is very concerned that you are interested in him and the feeling is not mutual, so he wants to avoid any uncomfortable misunderstandings .

Out of sight out of mind – Does he keep showing up at the places you go? Guys will often keep tabs on a girl they like. They want to watch you. They want to see what you are doing and they want you to know that they exist and are around for you. 

Flirting by word of Mouth – Lots of guys will frequently tell girls how beautiful they are, joke about sex, because they are hoping to move things in that direction and ask leading questions that might get them information on what kind of man the girl is looking for. The fact that a guy spends prolonged periods of time talking could be viewed as an act of flirting unto itself. 

Jealousy – Jealousy is generally a terrible thing, but here is one instance in which it can actually be useful. Does he get jealous when you’re around other guys? Does he seem agitated when you’re not together very much? Hmm.

Jaw dropper – The first time he saw you, did his jaw drop and form a visible” O?” Does that happen every time he sees you? Ding! Ding! Ding! We have a winner!!!

Double-take – If someone ever does a double-take of you and you’re not holding a severed human head in your hands, that is almost always a good thing. Also, if they keep walking but their head and eyes stay fixated on you, you got it going on!

Improved Posture – Does he straighten from her slouch when you approach?

Head tilt – The head tilt generally denotes interest, approval and is frequently a prelude to a kiss.

Join us – It seems like most guys would love a girl who shares their interests, a girl who is really a lot like them, a lot like a guy. For example, most men would love a girl who loves to watch football, watch action films and play sports, but it is almost impossible to find. If he is feeling you out for mutual interests he probably cares enough to care.

Talk about Obvious – Unlike women, men have a very vulnerable weakness in concealing their interest. Men and especially teenagers may be so aroused by the thought of you, the smell of you or the brush of your skin that they have a visual giveaway, an erection. This embarrassing and potentially problematic sign of their approval can be a dead giveaway and if you don’t get a gander at that, you may pick up on the concealment. An oddly carried bookbag or briefcase held strangely over the crotch area for a prolonged period can be almost as enlightening.

Being more Lady-Like – Yes, if a guy is interested he may actually become more like you. He will be more talkative and patient and at least pretend to be more caring. He will often mimic your endearing “awww” when looking at baby pictures, puppies, horses and dolphins. He may sit through a few romantic movies and perhaps find a sudden affection for salads, yogurt and yoga. 

Ring adjustments – If he is married and fiddling with his ring while he’s with you. He may be reassessing her relationship priorities on the spot.



By Evan Marquisee
September 8, 2014

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2 comment(s).
Luke - 4/17/2016 2:50:24 PM
Haha.
So I'm gay and this is very informative. I wish you would write an article "how to tell if guy might be gay and flirting or is just being nice" but a lot of these can be used in that situation ;)
Logical Spiritualism - 9/8/2014 9:00:20 PM
What do you think, ladies?

Is this helpful?

What are some other dead giveaways?

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